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post #31 of 49
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Originally Posted by owatto View Post

http://www.projectwedding.com/wedding-ideas/make-a-homemade-wedding-cake
This one gave me the giggles!!!

LOLOLOLLLLLOLOL!!!!!!! Tooth picks and "Extra Smooth" icing. Total Cake wrecks candidate. If a bride must make her wedding cake (and I have nothing against this) I totally would not recommend that tutorial. There are better ones on YouTube.

post #32 of 49

what keeps your guests from getting a toothpick in the soft palate?

 

What keeps the layers from sinking?

 

what keeps your friends from laughing at you when you seriously present that as a legitimate cake?

 

what i love the most is that these sites aren't really trying to save money, they are setting unrealistic expectations and creating this idea that there really isn't anything good that a professional offers. There is more than one way to provide a high quality wedding experience at an affordable price. I think it starts with setting realistic expectations and prioritizing your wants and needs, not by busting out toothpicks and cake mix.

 

harumph!

 

"edited to add" did anyone else notice that the $20 doesn't include the cost of the pans???


Edited by ellavanilla - 4/27/13 at 9:20pm
post #33 of 49

I feel bad for the poor bride that will be going bonkers the night before her wedding because she's making her own (terrible) cake.

post #34 of 49
Ella, I agree with every single word you just said.

What I really don't get is the blind brides. There were seriously comments from people who saw the photos!!!

I really wish someone would offer some legitimate options for brides on a tight budget.

1. Cut your guest count
2. Go with something that really is simple but beautiful (Swiss dots, simple scrolls, just plain).
3. Choose a candy bar & no cake
4. Hire a culinary student, but be sure to view many examples of their work so you know what to expect

www.VeryDeliciousDesserts.com

https://www.facebook.com/pages/Delicious-Desserts/207874222593145

 

It's never "just cake!"

 

You may get a cake for $way to little but you won't get this cake!

Animal
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www.VeryDeliciousDesserts.com

https://www.facebook.com/pages/Delicious-Desserts/207874222593145

 

It's never "just cake!"

 

You may get a cake for $way to little but you won't get this cake!

Animal
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post #35 of 49
Also, I think I'm going to start writing these bride magazines & try to educate them on the reality.

1 dummy cakes don't save much unless you are renting the whole cake. In that case, you have to pick something they already have. It won't be custom made for you.
2 cupcakes are often more expensive
3 I you serve a regular ole sheet cake, people will know. It looks different than a 4 layer cake
4 before you agree to an unknown baker or culinary student or grocery store, view cake wrecks to see what can happen.

www.VeryDeliciousDesserts.com

https://www.facebook.com/pages/Delicious-Desserts/207874222593145

 

It's never "just cake!"

 

You may get a cake for $way to little but you won't get this cake!

Animal
(4 photos)
 
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www.VeryDeliciousDesserts.com

https://www.facebook.com/pages/Delicious-Desserts/207874222593145

 

It's never "just cake!"

 

You may get a cake for $way to little but you won't get this cake!

Animal
(4 photos)
 
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post #36 of 49
Now, now, ladies...the monkey-iced cake isn't something that we'd do, but the people who do this kind of thing aren't our customers anyway. Honestly, you can easily stack three cake layers ( and those are layers, not tiers) and ice them all and they're not going to shift or sink. There's no law that says a wedding cake HAS to be torted and stacked, or that you even have to have a cake. I did a dessert buffet for my wedding (yes I was a DIY bride) and amazingly it didn't curse our marriage. If you're having a small wedding and that little cake with the rosemary on it is fine for your needs then have at it.

She definitely didn't need those toothpicks, though, that's just dangerous.

If you're bitter about losing the business of the DIY crowd, figure out a way to get it. I sell gumpaste flowers and decorating supplies in my Etsy shop, and I do a good business selling to DIY brides who want to put a flower on their little cakes. The DIY bride will never hire us to do a cake, but they might hire us for something else. I've actually considered running a class on how to put a cake together...it would either teach people that it isn't as easy as it looks and they'll end up hiring a pro, or it would get me paid from someone who wouldn't have hired me otherwise.
post #37 of 49

I agree - wedding DIY'ers are usually that way out of necessity - not as an outlet for all their creative energy.  They may have a $1000 or less total wedding budget, and as costumeczar stated, they weren't going to be calling a pro anyway.

 

I did happen to make a rosemary lemon cake last weekend, and it was pretty good!  I did not however lay fresh springs of it all over the finished cake. :)

 

Liz
 

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post #38 of 49
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Originally Posted by costumeczar View Post




The DIY bride will never hire us to do a cake,

Exactly! I'm not bitter about it. I understand it. I preach all the time to know your client.

I still get aggravated by magazines & blogs that give poor advice & bad information.

www.VeryDeliciousDesserts.com

https://www.facebook.com/pages/Delicious-Desserts/207874222593145

 

It's never "just cake!"

 

You may get a cake for $way to little but you won't get this cake!

Animal
(4 photos)
 
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www.VeryDeliciousDesserts.com

https://www.facebook.com/pages/Delicious-Desserts/207874222593145

 

It's never "just cake!"

 

You may get a cake for $way to little but you won't get this cake!

Animal
(4 photos)
 
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post #39 of 49
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Originally Posted by DeliciousDesserts View Post

Exactly! I'm not bitter about it. I understand it. I preach all the time to know your client.

I still get aggravated by magazines & blogs that give poor advice & bad information.

They suck...there are about ten pieces of bad cake advice that they just regurgitate over and over, but that will never change while they have space to fill so that they can sell wedding dress ads.
post #40 of 49
So true & so sad.

www.VeryDeliciousDesserts.com

https://www.facebook.com/pages/Delicious-Desserts/207874222593145

 

It's never "just cake!"

 

You may get a cake for $way to little but you won't get this cake!

Animal
(4 photos)
 
Reply

www.VeryDeliciousDesserts.com

https://www.facebook.com/pages/Delicious-Desserts/207874222593145

 

It's never "just cake!"

 

You may get a cake for $way to little but you won't get this cake!

Animal
(4 photos)
 
Reply
post #41 of 49
Thread Starter 

great points everyone!! And love Kara's ideas about helping the DIY bride make her day special, even if we don't do her actual cake!

post #42 of 49

I think toothpicks are very dangerous!!!! No comment on the cake itself. Words can not describe it!!!! LOL!!!

post #43 of 49
Quote:
Originally Posted by ellavanilla

 

harumph!

My thoughts exactly, lol.

post #44 of 49
Quote:
Originally Posted by costumeczar View Post

Now, now, ladies...the monkey-iced cake isn't something that we'd do, but the people who do this kind of thing aren't our customers anyway. Honestly, you can easily stack three cake layers ( and those are layers, not tiers) and ice them all and they're not going to shift or sink. There's no law that says a wedding cake HAS to be torted and stacked, or that you even have to have a cake. I did a dessert buffet for my wedding (yes I was a DIY bride) and amazingly it didn't curse our marriage. If you're having a small wedding and that little cake with the rosemary on it is fine for your needs then have at it.

 

 

I don't think it's bitterness, for me. It's frustration that the focus isn't on prioritizing what is important. I dunno, I guess I think you should focus on the most important part of the day, which is really making this significant change in your life and  celebrating it with your family. The whole wedding fairy tale fantasy thing is just obnoxious IMO. So you don't have a huge budget, but a giant family? Get married on Saturday afternoon and then throw a mother of a party in the evening. Everyone feeds themselves, and changes their clothes and comes back for a fun gathering. I mean how many sit down dinner weddings have you been to that you remembered for the dinner? 

 

For me, personally, I'd rather have 10 great parties, than one gigantic fantasy ball that leaves you with a lot of debt. Does that make sense? So don't teach people gimmicky ways to have a three tiered cake, teach them ways to get good quality out of the money they do have. 

 

Jen

post #45 of 49
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Originally Posted by costumeczar View Post

Now, now, ladies...the monkey-iced cake isn't something that we'd do, but the people who do this kind of thing aren't our customers anyway. Honestly, you can easily stack three cake layers ( and those are layers, not tiers) and ice them all and they're not going to shift or sink. There's no law that says a wedding cake HAS to be torted and stacked, or that you even have to have a cake. I did a dessert buffet for my wedding (yes I was a DIY bride) and amazingly it didn't curse our marriage. If you're having a small wedding and that little cake with the rosemary on it is fine for your needs then have at it.

She definitely didn't need those toothpicks, though, that's just dangerous.

If you're bitter about losing the business of the DIY crowd, figure out a way to get it. I sell gumpaste flowers and decorating supplies in my Etsy shop, and I do a good business selling to DIY brides who want to put a flower on their little cakes. The DIY bride will never hire us to do a cake, but they might hire us for something else. I've actually considered running a class on how to put a cake together...it would either teach people that it isn't as easy as it looks and they'll end up hiring a pro, or it would get me paid from someone who wouldn't have hired me otherwise.

I just get frustrated that they pass it off as just as good as a custom made cake from a bakery, which implies by suggestion that bakers who charge to make tiered cakes are ripping them off.  My wedding was also DIY- but I appreciate the effort of professionals.

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