i think you can get there from here
http://forums.egullet.org/topic/67296-demo-sculpting-a-cake/
then for the handle--make the tea cup handle with 'handles' on it
don't make a handle then figure out how to attach it
worry about it falling off
make a handle with additional extra long arms already built in onto it
all in one piece
maybe even reinforced with dry spaghetti noodles or skewers
so that when it's implanted into the side of the tea cup it is already perfectly secure
make sense? i hope