She asked me to make the cupcakes after her cake lady cancelled due to her having surgery. The wedding is October 6. She first asked me to make the cupcakes back in June or July, no problem, I can handle that. However, she has YET to give me what she wants. Yes, we have gone back and forth a little about what I can do, what colors, how many, etc. But she hasn't confirmed anything. I still don't know how many cupcakes, what flavor, what color, etc. She said she wants to wait until she gets the RSVPs in before she gives me a number.
I have a couple questions.
1. What is an appropriate amount of time before the wedding to require the bride to confirm all information? I like to plan what I'm doing and when and how much.
2. Am I being to lenient? I hate to be firm and say do 'this' or I can't make the cupcakes, because I probably can still make them and I want the business.
Any help is greatly appreciated. If you can answer my questions or share your experiences, I'll take it all!