post #16 of 16
I don't think you should focus on the price of the gift cake. That's just plain bad manners even among family.

The real problem is that this bridal party is uncontrolled. So you need to define the cake size and servings in your gift. Let them find out from somewhere else what your gist would cost.

It's more important to make sure that THEY take care of their extra last-minute guests. You will of course be delivering your gift, getting your hair done, getting ready for the wedding...NOT baking at the last minute because somebody wants to act like a pair of teenagers.