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post #16 of 74
I can't imagine with your talent you would want to quit. Your cakes are beautiful! Chin up, we all have our weak moments and you will rise above it! icon_biggrin.gif BTW it took some searching the pic to see the bubble so I don't imagine it will be noticed in a dim reception hall.
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post #17 of 74
OK - I was in the same spot you are about 6 or 7 years ago. I would get random bubbles and absolutely could not figure out why. But, I am happy to say I haven't had one in almost 7 years. Here is what I started doing they has completely gotten rid of the stinking bubbles. I just poke a very thin pin in different spots around the cake right after I have finished icing it. You can ususally hide the pin pokes behind a decoration. Even in smooth buttercream, they are not very noticeable. If I am doing, say, a 10 inch cake I will poke about 5 or 6 holes in it. Works like a charm! Good luck and don't give up!!
post #18 of 74
Relax and enjoy your talent! We are our own worst critics and sometimes we beat ourselves up unnecessarily.

I try to keep things in perspective when I get stressed. I remember reading an article in an Oprah magazine about a year ago on how to deal with stressful situations and the message stuck with me: Basically use the 10-10-10 rule. This means think about a situation in terms of how it will affect you in 10 minutes, 10 months, and 10 years. Within 10 minutes of looking at your cake maybe someone would notice the bubble. Once they eat the cake, I'm sure they would totally forget about it! It certainly won't be an issue in 10 months or 10 years.

I only wish I could make a cake look as good as yours! icon_smile.gif

Have a blessed day!
Cindy
post #19 of 74
I got tired of trying to get cakes perfectly level, so I bought an Agbay.
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post #20 of 74
You have entirely too much skill to quit. It's obvious both from your passionate story, and your beautiful work that you enjoy doing this. Every one of us has to deal with frustrations, and would LOVE to be able to do everything perfectly! It's all about getting better! Take the advise offered and keep going. I looked at your cake and saw beautiful bows (REALLY beautiful bows!), sharp edges, and smooth icing. One flaw doesn't ruin the finished product! Take a deep breath--you'll have a new perspective tomorrow!
post #21 of 74
Omg--that's the cutest cake--so much life and personality in it.

All cakes fart--it's ok. Most all of us people do too--that's ok too.

Pretend your favorite neice or your daughter (got kids?) made the cake and be nicer to yourself. Just freaking be nicer to you.

If you just got legal and you say you're gonna quit I'm gonna go throw up.

So be nicer to me too. icon_biggrin.gif

No but seriously--that cake has so much passion in it. It'd be a crime for you to quit. Just lighten up, CakeBuddy.

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post #22 of 74
Tell hubby to back away from the little lady wielding a wicked spatula.

I think he just wants you to feel better.
 
 

 

 

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post #23 of 74
My eyes always go to the one bad thing, but to be honest I HAD to search for the bubble. I agree while I'm doing a delivering a cake EACH time I say it isn't worth it if I made 10x what I am. Then I find myself making another one. I LOVE TO CAKE DECORATE!!!! Keep up the good work, you do lovely work!!!!!!
post #24 of 74
Except for the bubble, it IS a beautiful cake! thumbs_up.gif

You've gotten great advice and I can't really add to it. (But I'd probably pay attention to k8's advice! icon_rolleyes.gificon_biggrin.gif )
post #25 of 74
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I'm sitting here, crying and VERY emotional...because all you wonderful folks have reached out to me to make me feel better. Me, a stranger. This is such a lovely cake community, and I am truly blessed to have found such a caring environment. I know for a fact I wouldn't be doing cakes at all, without you kind folks.

I've wracked my brain and I am doing nothing that I didn't always do...I do refrigerate my cakes (mainly because I feel they are "safer" in there than sitting on my dining room table for two days--I have a separate fridge I use exclusively for cakes). But I've always done that. I guess I could try to NOT put them in the fridge. I usually deliver them all stacked (and because they are cold, they never budge; I've even delivered a 5 tiered already stacked and nothing moved, and did not use a center dowel).

And for those that asked, this cake is all buttercream with only fondant accents, bows and pearls. I have never done a cake in all fondant, and until I read your replies, I didn't realize that those types of cakes got blow outs too! More to worry about (for when/if I do a fondant covered cake).

Hubby just hates to see me get in such a funk when the cake isn't PERFECT, and it never is, is it? Maybe I don't have thick enough skin to be doing this. I appreciate all y'all saying I have talent. You're very kind. icon_smile.gif
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post #26 of 74
You are being way to hard on yourself. Your work is wonderful. And as far as the bubble, it took me looking twice to find it. The cake is far to beautiful for that to ruin it.

Everyone has given you excellent advice, just keep you head up and move on. Your next master piece awaits you!! icon_biggrin.gif
post #27 of 74
Perfectly lovely cake!! I bet they ate the evidence!! I have had them too, it just happens!
When going up the ladder of life, be nice to people on your way up. You never know, when you will see them on the way back down.

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When going up the ladder of life, be nice to people on your way up. You never know, when you will see them on the way back down.

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post #28 of 74
I guarantee that no cake civilian would ever even notice that bubble. That cake is so busy that the bubble is a bagatelle.
post #29 of 74
Your cake is perfect and like en-passant said the cake civilians probubly didnt even see it. We are all our own worst critics and hubbys just sometimes over react when us women get upset. Just look at all the wonderful cakes you have done, all the wonderful comments you have here and think of all the beautiful creations you will make in the future and remember that we all have bad days but the good days out way the bad ones. Hope this helps.
post #30 of 74
I had to look really hard to find that bubble. The cake is gorgeous. Sounds to me as if the bubble had a purpose. Look how much encouragement and support you have received. If the bubble hadn't shown up , you would be stressing about something else. Instead, you are taking in all the good energy being sent your way. Get that chin up and keep on bakin'
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