Sorry guys, I didn't know that this thread was still active, I hadn't gotten a notice on your responses. Anyway, to catch you up, after she sent me that e-mail she ended up calling me and I agreed to do it, I know I am a sucker but I insisted that told hold her date I needed a $200 deposit. She asked for my address and said she would be sending it out. I sent her a flavor list and told her that when I got her check I would call and we could set up a tasting...of course a few weeks past and no check. I emailed her an told her I hadn't received anything, and I had another bride interested in that date, but since she had come to me first I wanted to check with her once more. She e-mailed me back that I should give that date to the other bride because they were making it themselves. I just wrote back no problem and if she ever needed my services in the future she could contact me. I am happy that it turned out that way, because she prob. would have caused more problems for me. She was so wishy washy and just a handful...it is probably best it happened that way and by the way, if she ever contacts me again, I will just respond that I am booked.