I've been married six years ... just a drop in the bucket compared to some worthy CCers. Still, I agree whole-heartedly with the words of the others ... marry your best friend. You'll never be bored.
My wedding cake -- several years before I got into decorating -- was simple basketweave with buttercream lavender roses and daisies on top. (That's what I and my bridesmaids carried, respectively.) Very nice, but the inside was what we were really looking forward to: Alternating tiers with white cake with raspberry truffle filling and chocolate cake with Bailey's mocha filling. Ummmm ...
Of course, we were so busy neither of us ever got to have a piece.
And then we had a lengthy power outage that ruined our anniversary tier. Sigh.
Can't wait to see what some of the artists on this site would do for your cake!