I have a cake that I have to do over the Holiday and is due on Friday. I found out yesterday that I have a head cold. I tested negative for strep and the flu..however the Dr. said I could still have the flu but wont really know until Friday!
I would not be sick if it wasnt for my selfish SIL! Oh how I dislike her right now!
I should start by saying that I need a friend right now! And where better to go than here?!?!
So in October I agreed to let my SIL (41yrs old) live with us-and her 4yr old son. Against my better judgement...I gave her some ground rules and at first things were okay. I told her I would watch her son for free at nights so she could save and get her life together and she wouldnt have to pay me a dime! All I asked was that she take my three older kids to school and pick them up! I even gave her gas money every week for doing this.
A week before XMAS her son starts having a horrible cough. He ran fever, and even got pink eye. I told her she had to take him to the Dr. She did and said the Dr told her it was allergies. Okay, I believed it until my daughter started coughing and ran a fever. I gave her medicine--but no luck. I had to take her to the emergency room last Friday-out $150 cp-pay all to sit in the ER for 4 hrs. They never called her back to see a Dr. I finally left around 4am and took her to the after hours clinic at her reg. Dr's office...she has a slight case of bronchitis (sp). WHAT?! She has never had this! Dr asked if she had been around any one with a cold? NO! ---WAIT A MINUTE---! Nephew had been coughing! I bet that is what he has! Dr said DD has a bad ear infection..come to find out there is a bad case of pink eye and ear infection going around!
I confronted SIL and she denied it! She starts yelling at me and telling me I have no right telling her anything! The hell I dont! I told her she had to leave and take all of her things with her. I felt bad because of nephew but I have to think about my daughter! After all of that I find out from my other SIL that nephew really did have bronchitis but SIL didnt get him the medicine because medicad didnt cover it and she would have to pay for the meds! OMG! I was HOT! Then only a couple of hours later I find out SIL calls my step children's uncle and tells him I am a horrible mother! My husband and I have custody of two of his chilldren from a previous relationship. SIL tells uncle that I am a crappy mother and she has "dirt" on me! I feel like calling her and cusing her out! That's wrong I know, but I am really hurt and feel like I have to defend myself.