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my son passed away sat 7-12-08

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OMG I can't believe what happened. I still am not sure. My son went to a friends house friday night like he has been doing lately, and sat morning his friends left to go to work and didn't come home until around 8 or 9 tonight. They found him laying on the couch and he was already gone. They think he died earlier in the day and no one was there. I didn't see him the coroner advised me not to. It is so unreal I still feel like it is a nightmare I can't wake up from. I don't think he did it on purpose, but I am thinking that it might of been his muscle relaxers and zoloft combination. He went out to a bar fri night with his sister and her dh, but she said that he only drank a couple of beers. he did tell me a few months ago that his heart was bothering him. His pulse was racing very fast. I don't know if he told the dr about that before they gave him this medication or not. I won't know for awhile until they get the autopsy results back. This is absolutely the worst thing I can imagine to happen. I am still in shock. I can't go to sleep right now, cause every time I close my eyes I start thinking about this. I am just glad He was up here with us for his last few days, fri night I even made him his favorite meal. He loved my meat loaf.I guess I should try to get some rest I will talk to ya'll later.
We are having his funeral thursday
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I am saddened to hear this, but I want you to know that I am sending up prayer for you and your family. I pray that God will give you the strength and patience to endure this sudden loss.

God Bless You
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Oh honey, I'm sooo sorry. I can't even imagine what you're going through. My DH lost his sister 7 years ago this month. His parents and him do better each year, but it will never be the same. We keep her memory alive each chance we get, and still include her in the holidays. This seems to help, but everyone morns in their own way. It is always tragic when you lose a child, no matter what age. If you need anything at all, please let us know. My heart and prayers are with you and your family. Take time for yourself, and when you're ready talk with some kind of grief counsler, please don't hold it in. We love you. ((HUGS))
"No boy is worth crying over. And the one who is won't make you cry." -Sarah Kane, Age 10
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"No boy is worth crying over. And the one who is won't make you cry." -Sarah Kane, Age 10
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post #4 of 218
Prayers are headed your way. Just remember that we will not be given anything more than we can bear. You will make it through this one day at a time.
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patticake1951.....I am so sorry for your loss. I also will pray for you and your family. (((HUG))))
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I'm terribly sorry to hear of your loss. Know that he is in peace, and you WILL see him again. If there is anything we can do please let us know. God Bless
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I am so so sorry to hear about your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
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post #8 of 218
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My family and I will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
post #9 of 218
I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers are coming your way. Just take it day to day.
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Dear patticake1951,
What a shock. I am so sorry to hear about your son. There is nothing that any of us could say to make you feel any better, but remember you are not alone. There is always somone on here 24 hours a day to talk to.

Mel
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I am so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what you and your family are going through. I will keep you all in my prayers.
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post #12 of 218
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers, I am so sorry for your loss.
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I am very sorry for your loss (hugs)
~Brenda~
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~Brenda~
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post #14 of 218
I am also sorry to hear about your loss. Will keep you in prayer.
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post #15 of 218
Mt heart just aches for you and your family. Many hugs and much love sent out to you and your family. I will include you all in our prayers. May God bless and comfort you.
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