I TOTALLY feel for ya....
I'm the one with the golf bag cake falling nightmare.
I've been so busy lately that I've been missing so many forum topics and Sugar Plum Fairy just brought this to my attention.
It wasn't your fault. EVERYONE NEEDS TO LEARN FROM MY NIGHTMARE AND THIS ONE. My god.. any function that has music with speakers needs to be put on the "danger" list and appropriate action simply must be taken!!!
Offering the refund you did was more than gracious... And not for nothing'... ( and I never mentioned this in my thread which was thankfully lost in the Great Crash of '0
... At my very own wedding ( before I was making cakes... ) I very clearly remember looking over at my wedding cake and seeing the spray of BC roses that spanned 3 tiers sliding right off onto the table. And yes... it totally screwed up the cake. Did it ruin my wedding??? HELL NO. I quiety told the hostess to please FIX it ASAP and never even brought it up again until right now. I didnt complain to anyone.... I didnt demand money back ( when I probably could have.. )..
It was my WEDDING. MUCH more important things going on there than my cake. ( yes... those words are actually coming out of my cake-mouth. ).
And you were there HOW long???? Damn girl... you were not responsible in any way shape or form.
And to anyone wondering what happened with my saga, my attorney has still not received any photo's from the nut-job and I told him to just sit tight until he does, please dont contact her for any reason.
I have a feeling she will be back though.. My pic with a cake is appearing in a mag that is distributed in the area she lives in so I have a feeling she may resurface sometime soon.
But back to the issue at hand...
Move on, be happy to put this behind you and by all means... ADD THIS TO YOUR CONTRACT!!!