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post #31 of 114
7/18/07 at 6:04pm
OMG that cake is amazing! I would love to have had that cake at my wedding! Don't get down. It's beautiful! icon_biggrin.gifthumbs_up.gif
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post #32 of 114
7/18/07 at 6:11pm
Your cake looks wonderful. By all means, enter it in the fair! When your win, it will make all that hard work worthwhile for YOU!
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post #33 of 114
7/18/07 at 6:14pm
your cake is gorgeous, and im sure you know that ...maybe it just didnt suit her fancy icon_sad.gif my daugther's 4, and im going to stop making her cakes when she's 18... icon_wink.gif

Daughter's weddings are once a lifetime events, so i guess she should be happy with the cake even if it means you have to toil away without sleep ..she'll understand what she put u thru once she's had kids icon_razz.gif

I know Ive had my unreasonable moments with my mom, and I was just stressed out and being difficult.... and now as a parent i finally understand the concept of 'unconditional love', the kind every parent has for their child.

So embrace in your unconditional love and find that bit of patience and everything will be fine..... icon_biggrin.gif
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post #34 of 114
7/18/07 at 6:23pm
Wow!! I think it is Absolutely Gorgeous!!! Sorry that your daughter feels that way.I wish my mom made or bought my wedding cake.


Good Luck at the Fair,
stacy
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post #35 of 114
7/18/07 at 6:26pm
When I became a mom, I understood some of the heartache I put my mother through. However, I also have not forgotten how scary it was to be leaving the comfort of my mother's house to go out on my own. I also have not forgotten how stressful it is to try to have a wedding when your parents are divorced. So, forgive your daughter once more and give her a hug and enjoy the wedding as much as possible. Your dummy cake is divine and I'm sure the "other" one will be fabulous as well!

Shelle
~ Michelle ~

Never be afraid to try something new. Amateurs built the Ark; professionals built the Titanic!!
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~ Michelle ~

Never be afraid to try something new. Amateurs built the Ark; professionals built the Titanic!!
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post #36 of 114
7/18/07 at 6:28pm
Your cake is absolutely beautiful!!! You and our daughter are both stressed. It is tough getting a wedding together. This will pass and you both will get back to normal after the wedding.

She is lucky for having some say in her cake. My aunt made my cake but I was told that she got to have her way if it was free. I simply asked if I could have daisies. She told me yes and I left the rest to her. I had the most beautiful three tiered wedding cake.

Take a deep breath and hang in there.
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post #37 of 114
7/18/07 at 6:30pm
Your cake is amazing!! It is so beautiful!! I love the teal and brown together.
And my God will meet all your needs according to his glorious riches in Christ Jesus. Phil 4:19

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And my God will meet all your needs according to his glorious riches in Christ Jesus. Phil 4:19

No person was ever honored for what he received. Honor has been the reward for what he gave. - Calvin Coolidge
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post #38 of 114
7/18/07 at 6:32pm
"Honey I'm really sorry you don't like this cake because I worked really hard on it and made it special for you. If you would like another cake then you can certainly go to a bakery and order and buy another one. I won't force you to use this one and I won't hold it against you if you decide to get another one."

I know that's being sort of a harda** about it, but being a bride does not give one the authority to trample on others. Your cake is absolutely gorgeous and I like the idea of the small cake for the couple to cut together. I think you're being awfully generous and understanding by making her another cake. I bet someday she'll wonder why she was being so difficult icon_confused.gif .
"One of the sanest, surest, and most generous joys of life comes from being happy over the good fortune of others."
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"One of the sanest, surest, and most generous joys of life comes from being happy over the good fortune of others."
- Robert A. Heinlein
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post #39 of 114
7/18/07 at 6:36pm
I hope you are not making a whole NEW tiered cake!?? That would be tragic! Just make a small little 4" for the top and put the bow back on and then she can cut that!

YOUR CAKE IS WONDERFUL!!! I LOVE the colors! Very nice! Tell her she could go and pay $500 for a new cake and maybe not even GET a cake because of short notice! OR she can shut her mouth and enjoy the oo's and ahh's!
It's not "just" cake...it's my life!
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It's not "just" cake...it's my life!
WI State Representative for Icing Smiles...start 'Baking a Difference" today!
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post #40 of 114
7/18/07 at 6:40pm
Thread Starter 
For those of you follwing this thread - here is a pic of the invites I made.
We did go over her design and it's fine; she just wants REAL stacked cake and a more bluesy turquoise color!
LL
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post #41 of 114
7/18/07 at 6:46pm
christeena that cake is simply beautiful.... I absolutely love it... you did an amazing job and have nothing to feel bad about other than a daughter who didn't appreciate your hard work. I hope things turn out for the better. I hope you posted this in your gallery, I plan to save to my favs... AMAZING WORK!
<3Lori<3
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post #42 of 114
7/18/07 at 6:49pm
I'm so sorry! If you were my mom and made a cake for me like that I would have given you a big hug and kiss and said "Thank you so much - I LOVE IT" - I'm sorry you need to redo it.
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post #43 of 114
7/18/07 at 6:51pm
Wow... just looked at the cake and the invite side by side. Looks perfect. Sorry she's not happy with it.

Beautiful cake!
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post #44 of 114
7/18/07 at 6:58pm
I fully agree with moxey2000 that is exactly what I would say.

and your cake looks perfect
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God exists in eternity. The only point where eternity meets time is in the present. The present is the only time there is.
- Marianne Williamson
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post #45 of 114
7/18/07 at 7:01pm
Your cake is BEAUTIFULL.I love the colors and design.
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