Annoyed With Cheapskates!! How Do I Explain?

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SweetArt Posted 16 Aug 2006 , 8:20pm
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I have a business selling wedding cakes. What really ticks me off is when people call me, and their first question is, "How much do you charge per serving?" How do I explain to them that wedding cakes are about a lot more than just price? I do good quality work, my cakes taste wonderful, and I have a huge selection to choose from. I also do work that is difficult to find around here. I know cost is important to them, but quality should be more important.

The last person who started the conversation out with this question I wanted to ask her, "Well, do you want quality or do you want cheap? If you want cheap, go to Wal-Mart!" But it's not good business to answer like that. This girl then scheduled a consultation (for today) and then was a "no show".

I'm just looking for a good way to answer that question by explaining that price should not be the determining factor in buy once in a lifetime wedding cake, your decorators/bakers talents should be.

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CakeDiva73 Posted 16 Aug 2006 , 8:28pm
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How about something like, "I make exceptional cakes that taste as good as they look. These aren't bargain cakes. If money is your deciding factor, may I suggest a beautiful teired twinkie cake? At only .32 cents per serving, it is a steal!" icon_biggrin.gif

Ok... I guess you can't really say that. I think most brides want a stunning & beautiful wedding cake for really, really cheap. And if their mothers are breathing down their neck about the budget then perhaps that's why their first question is about cost.... if they can't afford you then why ask about flavors and fillings?

Most people don't appreciate good cake like us!

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gilson6 Posted 16 Aug 2006 , 8:34pm
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I always say that the cost is $1.50 per serving with .50 cents per serving for filling for a basic plain cake and any additional decorations (flowers, fondant & etc.) are extra.

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ge978 Posted 16 Aug 2006 , 8:41pm
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I find that is a pretty common first question to ask about a wedding cake. And at least as my experience has gone it doesn't necessarily mean that they don't want quality cakes...they just want to make sure its in their price range first.
I kind of like when that is one of the first questions because if I'm out of the price range then at least we didn't have to go through all the size, fillings, flavors,etc just to have them balk at the price afterward.

Maybe when they ask how much per slice tell them it varies depending on style, flavor, size, etc & then ask what they had in mind.

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sun33082 Posted 16 Aug 2006 , 8:52pm
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I think it's an understandable question. I know I'm a comparison shopper. I'm not married, but I know if I don't do my own wedding cake, I'll check out reputable bakers and to compare I'll ask price per slice first. Now I'm not sayin I'm gonna compare Walmart to a Wedding cake baker, but I would shop around.

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lilica Posted 16 Aug 2006 , 9:03pm
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I always say that the cost is $1.50 per serving with .50 cents per serving for filling for a basic plain cake and any additional decorations (flowers, fondant & etc.) are extra.





That sounds like a good response. You can give them your base price for the cake itself (no decorations) and let them know you add to the price depending on what they want.

Just wanted to say: your cakes are a piece of art!! icon_smile.gif LOVE THEM!

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ladyonzlake Posted 16 Aug 2006 , 9:14pm
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Everyone seems to start with that question and I give them my "base" price and let them know depending on filling, flavors and decorations the price increases.
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Gingoodies Posted 16 Aug 2006 , 9:21pm
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My advise would be to tell the prospective client that your cakes start at $X.xx and go up to $X.xx per serving. Price is determined by the flavor of cake, filling and degree of decoration. This way they have an idea of where you are price wise, and you have elbow room to work your pricing accordingly.

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SweetArt Posted 16 Aug 2006 , 9:37pm
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Thanks, lilica.

I do know that price is important. I check the price for everything I buy, but I find out more about the product first. When I compare two like items, then price will weigh in, but I'm tiring to let them know that there is a difference in cakes.

By just price shopping, they are not finding out about my cake's quality and that I am not Wal-Mart's competition. When they ask that question, I want to be able to tell them the price, but to also explain why in the same breath. When many people ask that, I can tell they just don't understand why two different bakeries could charge two totally different prices. The words of my FIL probably sum up their thoughts best, "It's just cake! Flour & water!"

Maybe my problem is that I didn't have a cake at my wedding. I didn't go through the budgeting and planning phases. What are these girls realistically thinking they are going to pay for a cake? Are they only budgeting $100-$200 for a cake for their 300 guest wedding? Is that what it is? (Not being sarcastic here.)

I do give a base price and let them know the final price depend flavors and decorating choice. My base price is $1.95. I didn't think it was that high.

Most clients start out with, "Can you do this design," "Do you do fondant," or "Can I get gumpaste flowers." I'm just used to opening a conversation with those kinds of questions.

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indydebi Posted 16 Aug 2006 , 9:40pm
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The question that gets me is "How much is a 3-tiered cake?" I respond (with a smile in my voice): "That depends. I can make a 3-tiered cake to serve 300 ...... and I can make a 3-tiered cake to serve 20. Let's talk about what you need first." At least if they are asking about price per serving, you know you're dealing with someone who has done some research and knows how it works.

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CakeDiva73 Posted 16 Aug 2006 , 9:42pm
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LOL at your FIL! icon_cry.gif
I have talked to more people that have no idea how much it costs to make a cake. I figure my ingredient cost alone is about $10 for an 8" cake.... that doesn't account for boards, electricity, colors or my time! And if that cake takes me 2 hours to bake and decorate, if I charge only $15 - which is what these people want to pay, I make a whopping $5! And not really since I didn't factor in the other stuff....

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SweetThistleCakes Posted 16 Aug 2006 , 9:55pm
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What I have found works well is that you tell them that each cake is priced to their own specific ideas and needs. Therefore, until I know specifically what they want, I really cant give them a price. Yes, I may be wasting time by doing that by I also know how many cake orders I have lost by giving out a flat fee without the client knowing and me knowing what the cakkes needed to be made out for. Then I suggest meeting at the Starbucks so we can sit down and talk about it. Most importaintly, I have started to refer to the "slices" as "person"- ie- 150 slices= 150 people. I really feel that this sounds less harsh when it comes to talking $$.

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MaisieBake Posted 17 Aug 2006 , 3:30am
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Unless you're the only game in town, I think making people meet you in person for a sales call might be losing business for you.

It's reasonable for a potential customer to want to know, in a general way, what your prices are. They need to prequalify you, to make sure that your price range is what they're looking to/able to pay.

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SweetThistleCakes Posted 17 Aug 2006 , 2:12pm
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Food for thought...

I think it's easier to communicate in person because the customer really gets to see what's available to them as far options reather than just saying, "for $40 bucks, you get you choice of cake, but that doesnt include premium flavors, you choice of icing, again that doesnt include premium flavors, a simple design, but that's only limited to shells, zig zags, and roses are $0.50 a piece, etc, etc, etc" You can sit down and explain your options better and supply them with actual photos of these examples. I think it makes your case easier when you can show them what $40 looks like. Also, not everyone has internet access, (strange I know) so being able to sit down with someone is the next best alternative!

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RisqueBusiness Posted 18 Aug 2006 , 1:30am
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well,since I really don't want to do wedding cakes anymore, I have a set price that I start from....300.00 for plain butter cream...for up to 100 people and a 25.00 consultation fee that is credited to the final price!

next price up...500.00 for fondant, serving 100 people, using premade flowers..

to make a one of a kind sugar creation from start to finish, with me doing all the work, decorating and set up....1,000.00

Those are my prices, keeps the cheapo looky lou's away from me!

( it's true that I don't get too many wedding cakes, but I'm fine with that! I don't want to deal with BRIDEZILLAS and their MOMMAS!..lol)

My shop is tiny...I may be able to bake several cakes at a time but can only decorate one at a time, so..if I"m tied up with a wedding cake...make it worth my time..lol!!!

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Narie Posted 18 Aug 2006 , 2:10am
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I don't think asking a price per serving right off the bat is unreasonable. Actually, the person calling is being respectful of both your time and theirs. If they have a beer budget then that's what they have. Wanting a quality cake is all well and good- but it doesn't mean they can afford it. Besides buying a wedding cake isn't something a person does often enough to keep up with the prices. The mother of the bride may have paid $100 dollars for her cake so when she discovers that what she got for $100 will now cost $400 or $500 she may suffer from sticker shock. I know I certainly did when I ordered a 40th Anniversery Cake. I don't know why I didn't realize that the price of a cake would have gone up just the way everything else had, but honestly I hadn't. icon_surprised.gif

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LeckieAnne Posted 18 Aug 2006 , 2:26am
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I don't think it's unreasonable to ask the price first. I know that the cake I wanted was way out of my price range - and I had to settle, on a lot of things, not just the cake. However, I did compromise on the style in order to get a great tasting homemade cake. The couple determines what's most important, and where they want to splurge.

Maybe they'll come to you for a smaller event where they can afford to splurge on a fabulous cake if you welcome any questions they have, including the price, but still explain how wonderful your cake is, and why it costs more than the local grocer's.

By the way -- my local grocery store had a sample fondant cake on display the other day. I was shocked. It looked terrible though (he he).

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boonenati Posted 18 Aug 2006 , 2:28am
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I dont actually charge per slice. I do all sorts of cakes, not only for weddings, but i have a starting price of AU$150(US$114). It's clearly stated on the webpage, but i've had people call and say AU$150(US$114) is a little over my budget, what can you do for less, can i have something more simple?
hahahahahahaha (I wish we had something like Wal-mart here where i could send them to ; )

When people call for a quote over the phone, i tell them that i need to have their requirements, the number of servings, the type of cake, decorations etc, in order to tell them a price. Each cake is custom made and will have a different price.

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missyjo30 Posted 18 Aug 2006 , 2:42am
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I see your point, however, there are people out there that just cannot afford to pay a whole lot and are looking to stay within a budget.

I think being rude would be degrating to someone who honestly could not afford to not worry about the price.

You could kindly tell them the base price per serving and then work from there.

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cakesbybert Posted 18 Aug 2006 , 3:00am
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I would rather a bride ask the price per serving right off the bat - than to spend an hour or more going over photos, flavors, fillings, etc. and finding out that there is no way she can afford what she wants.

Everyone needs to know a starting point and to know if they afford atleast the basic.

It's not a matter of being a cheapskate. I know when I was looking for a wedding cake, that was my first question. But why waste your time and mine, if I can not afford the cake.

Besides, you can look at it this way, they did call you. It would be better for them to call and ask the question than to assume they can't afford you and never call at all. Just calling indicates they do want a cake that is made by a talented decorator.

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arosstx Posted 18 Aug 2006 , 3:13am
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I think that anyone that calls and asks a question like that right off the bat is not one that you want to work too hard to sell anyway. Just answer her question and get her off the phone. If you DID for some reason win someone like that over, wouldn't that be a fun experience?

Uh, no.

From what I saw, you'll have just as many that call, wanting and appreciating what you can do. Don't waste time on the duds! thumbsdown.gif

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LukeRubyJoy Posted 18 Aug 2006 , 3:18am
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I have sold other things (besides cake) and even though you are taught to discuss characteristics and benefits first, and price last, it is almost NEVER the way it goes. So, you kind of need to be realistic to expect that. But, I was also taught to give a range, from least to most expensive.....say, "oh my cakes range from 1.75 to 4.00 a slice, depending on all the bells and whistles, when would you like to come in for a sample?" Getting them in WITH you always seemed to be THE single largest point for getting the sale. Once they determine that somewhere between your price range would be okay with them, try to have them come in. You probably know all this...but, once someone sees, and smells and tastes then it will be hard for them to leave.

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Katie-Bug Posted 18 Aug 2006 , 3:30am
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I so needed this to night! Okay, heres the break-down; I have a 4-tier hexagon wedding cake, a two tier chocolate grooms cake, and 13x9 and smash cake for Baby Einstein, a 6in. square just because, and 12x18 40th anniversary cake. Everything is due on Saturday.
At 4:30 this evening I receive a message from my bride asking if she could cut her grooms cake in half, doing away with the top tier, a 12' sq. This is less then 48hr. from delivery! I tell her that's fine if she doesn't want it, but I will need to cover the now wasted materials. This tier is $75 and I told her I would need $30, since the cake and icing were already made. That's fine, she'll do that! Then not 15minutes later she calls back and says that if she's gonna have to pay she might as well get the cake! Well..yeah! This now makes the fourth time she has called and changed her order!
Anyway...just wanted to share my most recent experience with cheap scates! icon_biggrin.gif Have a great one!

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RisqueBusiness Posted 18 Aug 2006 , 1:14pm
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At 4:30 this evening I receive a message from my bride asking if she could cut her grooms cake in half, doing away with the top tier, a 12' sq. This is less then 48hr. from delivery! I tell her that's fine if she doesn't want it, but I will need to cover the now wasted materials. This tier is $75 and I told her I would need $30, since the cake and icing were already made. That's fine, she'll do that! Then not 15minutes later she calls back and says that if she's gonna have to pay she might as well get the cake! Well..yeah! This now makes the fourth time she has called and changed her order!




Ugh, this is why I decided to no longer do wedding cakes!

My landlord recommended me to a guy that was getting married on a Saturday ( that was like a week away) He tells me, the guy owns a Bentley Dealership..."charge him, charge him!"..lol

I speak to the young girlfriend..( all of 19!) and told her she could come in on that Tuesday for a tasting. She came in with her mom and they order a cake...the cake is only for 6 to 8 people. ( Now, how am I going to make a wedding cake look nice when that many servings calls for nothing bigger than an 8"..lol)

Anyway, Mom and bride tell me that THEY are paying for the cake, so they want something not too expensive. So, of course...I decided ( because it was the landlord that sent these people to me I HAD to do the cake) I decided to charge $60.00..at least $10.00 a serving. They decided not to pay the $10.00 delivery and set up charge, she decided that her brother could pick up the cake.

Of course my reputation is at stake so I make it as nice as I possibly can, so I did my best..I'm going to see if I can upload the picture. Everyone tells me that I didn't charge enough, but oh well, the customer is happy...( he called the landlord and told him it was the best cake he ever had and so cheap too! ..hahha I think the flavor improved when he found out it didn't cost an arm and a leg..lol...everyone was happy, the landlord is happily recommending me to his friends and clients...so I think I did a good thing..............BUT I HATE WEDDING CAKES!!!!!!!!! lol)

Well, I guess I have to post it in the gallery...it's too big for here...

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DelightsByE Posted 22 Aug 2006 , 12:33am
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I find that is a pretty common first question to ask about a wedding cake. And at least as my experience has gone it doesn't necessarily mean that they don't want quality cakes...they just want to make sure its in their price range first.
I kind of like when that is one of the first questions because if I'm out of the price range then at least we didn't have to go through all the size, fillings, flavors,etc just to have them balk at the price afterward.

Maybe when they ask how much per slice tell them it varies depending on style, flavor, size, etc & then ask what they had in mind.




I too think it's a perfectly legitimate question, and you'll find it will get asked a LOT. In fact, with my cake business where I don't already know the person, or they're not being referred by my caterer friend (who will have already clued them in anyway), I'd say 98% of the time this is one of the first 3 questions asked.

My suggestion is to come up with a basic price per serving for your standard no-frills wedding cake. Then when the question arises, as it invariably will, you can say "My cakes start at $x.xx per serving for a basic cake. Other options will affect the price. What is your cake budget?"

Then you know what kind of bride you're dealing with right off the bat, and the bride will know what kind of decorator she's dealing with right off the bat as well.

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peacockplace Posted 22 Aug 2006 , 2:05am
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I think the problem is that most people (around here anyway) Have no clue what a wedding cake costs, and are shocked that they can't get one for $100-$200!

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Eren Posted 22 Aug 2006 , 6:59pm
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Or any custom cake for that matter. I made a Baby Shower one for a friend, and a guest kept raving about it and asking me if I could make one for a party she's organizing. As this is just my hobby, I said I will think about it.
I called her, she gave me a date, and she was all excited, and as she was hanging up I asked, is $50 ok? (she hadn't asked at all about the price). I do not know her, so I hope she didn't assume I was going to make it for free. It's a two layer 12 in flavor and filling of her choice with royal icing flowers. I thought that was reasonable. And really, she could have haggled, I wouldn't have taken $25 for it icon_smile.gif (practice)
Well, I soon as I said it, she went quiet, said I will call you later with the flavor and hung up. Oh, well. Her loss. That was less than $2 per person for a custom cake. I guess she'll go to the supermarket.

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Narie Posted 23 Aug 2006 , 1:08am
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Well, I soon as I said it, she went quiet, said I will call you later with the flavor and hung up. Oh, well. Her loss. That was less than $2 per person for a custom cake. I guess she'll go to the supermarket.




This is exactly why the question of money should come up early in any conversation. I check the price of a dress or a pair of shoes before I try them on. No point get enthusiastic about something outside your budget. At least she was polite enough not to snark about your price.

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