Extremely Embarrassing

Business By TERRYHORTON Updated 18 Mar 2006 , 5:22pm by sofiasmami

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ShelbysYummys Posted 4 Mar 2006 , 1:28am
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I too love the invoice idea. Maybe just tell him opps you dropped this when I gave you the cake and hand him an invoice
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parismom Posted 4 Mar 2006 , 2:58am
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How did it end up today?

I hope it worked out!

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rainbowz Posted 4 Mar 2006 , 3:25am
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Perhaps the guy wasn't aware it was a "cash up front" transaction and for whatever reason expected to get billed afterwards. I'd assume it was an innocent error.

Obviously, he needs to be billed anyway. Something like this perhaps:

Dear Tom,

Hope the cake was a great hit. I had fun making it. I'll be at my desk all day Monday, and will have your invoice and a receipt for $55 ready for you. Cash or cheque is fine, either way.

Can't wait to hear how it went over with the gang!

Terry


This way the reminder is sort of buried between a couple of light, social comments, not too obvious a "You didn't pay me, you schmuck!" reminder.

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PSLCakeLady Posted 4 Mar 2006 , 2:42pm
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I think a direct approach is my choice too. I like the invoice thingy but I definately would have had a chit chat.

Oh well, what can you do, everyday is a learning experience. I just hope the guy pays the invoice. Best of luck.

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angelas2babies Posted 6 Mar 2006 , 3:43am
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Let us know what happens! I originally suggested the invoice idea because I think it is actually more professional (even though some of you may disagree) than confronting him. I don't think it's rude...what was rude was him walking off with the cake. And like I said, he may have just excitedly taken the cake with him, and that's okay, but I either way, it definitely saves you an awkward moment, and besides, you can always ask him in person if he liked the cake, etc, and be friendly about it.

The most important thing is that you get paid and you really shouldn't have to be put in a position to ask for your money. Good luck!!!!

Angie

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traci Posted 6 Mar 2006 , 3:59am
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If it were me...I would probably be too embarrassed to do anything! I am just like that.

However, I recently did 4 cakes for a business and they did not pay me at the time of the delivery. I ended up sending them a very nice email and they finally paid me. But I know it is different with someone you work with everyday.

Hopefully it will all work out and he was just in a hurry.

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Cake_Princess Posted 6 Mar 2006 , 4:36am
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Let us know what happens! I originally suggested the invoice idea because I think it is actually more professional (even though some of you may disagree) than confronting him. I don't think it's rude...what was rude was him walking off with the cake. And like I said, he may have just excitedly taken the cake with him, and that's okay, but I either way, it definitely saves you an awkward moment, and besides, you can always ask him in person if he liked the cake, etc, and be friendly about it.

The most important thing is that you get paid and you really shouldn't have to be put in a position to ask for your money. Good luck!!!!

Angie




I don't think anyone said the invoice idea was not professional. What I thought was unprofessional was not giving it to the client directly. I would have been offended to if the invoice just showed up in my mailbox as opposed to having my co-worker/ friend personally bring it to me and say here is what you owe me.

I keep on hearing mention of "avoiding confrontation" well it's not like the terryhorton is gonna run into the guy's office like a neanderthal with a club and start beating the guy over the head demanding the money for the cake. (Well I hope not - please don't do it. And in the event that you do it don't mentioned you got this idea from me. I don't wanna get sued). icon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gif

All I am saying is there wasn't a "confrontation" when the cake was delivered. So basically it's the same deal. "Hey buddy I know how excited you were and I forgot to give you the invoice" and simply hand it over. I don't see that as being confrontational.

Yes the guy should have had the money ready to hand over but he could have just gotten wrapped up in the moment. Who knows what was going through his head. On the other hand Terryhorton should have gently reminded him before he peeled off with The cake. Don't ever expect that everyone is going to just hand over money. Some people just need to be reminded. Kinda like taking a kid to the candy store - Hey you have to pay for it before you can eat it. Where's your piggy bank?

Well let's hope Terryhorton gets the money for the cake. Chalk it up to experience. Next time have the invoice ready with the cake and hand them over together. All you have to do is say to the client here is your cake and the invoice for the cake is attached.

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cybourg Posted 6 Mar 2006 , 1:34pm
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OK, I am going to stick my two cents in where it doesn't belong . . . since I don't make cakes for customers.

However, a lot of ya'll keep mentioning asking him how the cake was and then provide the invoice or a reminder that the cake was x amount of $. While I realize that this is a moot point now, don't you think that would give him an opening to say he didn't like it so he didn't have to pay?

And I don't don't just mean this particular situation either. This could happen to anyone. Of course we all want to know our cakes were enjoyed, we also know people will do anything to get out of paying. So don't give them an opening until after the money is received.

Sorry, I worked with an attorney for over eight years. This is just mho.

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ge978 Posted 6 Mar 2006 , 2:02pm
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Cakeprincess: Just imagining a customer being beaten over the head with a club icon_lol.gificon_surprised.gificon_lol.gif Great idea...I've been looking for a way to deal with my difficult customers! icon_lol.gif

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Sugarbean Posted 6 Mar 2006 , 6:34pm
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I guess I'm also in the minority.

I would have given the invoice directly as well. It is super easy to draw up an invoice on the computer as well as a reciept for cash recieved. I would have drawn up an invoice, and gave it to him directly.

Hopefully I never have to deal with this, but with my customers I make it VERY clear how much the cake is, and I also ask them their budget. So that everyone involved is happy.

I also would leave out the chit chat. Because of the opening to disagree and not pay.
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briansbaker Posted 7 Mar 2006 , 5:57pm
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So what happened???? You have us in suspense!!!

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ape Posted 7 Mar 2006 , 6:01pm
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yes.....what happened?

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klg1152 Posted 7 Mar 2006 , 6:30pm
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Because I do lots of orders for friends I either hand them an envelope with the invoice or tape it to the top of the box, it works great, never had a problem getting paid.

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stephanie214 Posted 7 Mar 2006 , 9:35pm
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I attach the invoice to the box along with a business card...just in case they lost the other one icon_wink.gif

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AmberCakes Posted 7 Mar 2006 , 9:48pm
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Next time you see him I would just say to him "You left so quickly with the cake that you forgot to pay for it. You seemed to be in such a hurry so I figured you would just pay me the next time you saw me." Something along those lines maybe. Sometimes playing a little "clueless" so to speak can save any hard feelings!


Let us know his reasoning for taking off so fast!!


Amy




I agree with this one too. Sounds good to me. You can also email him if you don't want to confront him.

Ooops! sorry I should have read the whole post first. LOL. Well, I'll be waiting to see what happens also.

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chocomama Posted 7 Mar 2006 , 10:10pm
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I haven't been paid for any cakes yet, but I used to have my own gift basket business. When I would take an order, I would write up an invoice and give it to the customer (unless it was placed over the phone). When I would deliver the basket, I always had my copy of the invoice in my hand and ready to go. After all of the small talk was over, I'd just tell her the price. I was always paid on the spot and immediately would write on her invoice and mine (and if she didn't have hers I'd give her another b/c the pad I used had 2 copies for each original), "PAID" in big letters and if I was given a check I'd write the amount and the check number along with the date on it. If it was cash I'd just write "PAID CASH" and the amount and date. HTH!

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ape Posted 17 Mar 2006 , 12:50pm
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Did I miss what happened?

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ellepal Posted 17 Mar 2006 , 1:02pm
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I have developed a new policy. The cake must be paid in advance before delivery, unless it's a very close friend or relative. That way, I don't worry about bounced checks, non-payment, etc. If they aren't paid, no cake. If they are worried about getting their cake, I have references and a good reputation. I just think that if we start allowing people to do this, it's really not worth it business wise. Before he walked off, I think I would have told him, "hey, that'll be 55.00 please. " If he doesn't pay, take the cake back and enjoy it yourself.

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ConnieB Posted 17 Mar 2006 , 8:22pm
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He owes you money....end of story! you should not feel bad at all!

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mmdd Posted 17 Mar 2006 , 8:26pm
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You could possibly say something like, did I give you a copy of the reciept????? So you should have a receipt book, lol. and just kinda go from there. I mean, $55 is $55!!!!

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cakebybek Posted 17 Mar 2006 , 8:34pm
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TERRYHORTON were are you!!!!!!!

It's driving me crazy to find out what happend. icon_cry.gif

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Monica0271 Posted 17 Mar 2006 , 8:42pm
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It's driving me crazy to find out what happend.





Me too!!

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txboog Posted 17 Mar 2006 , 8:47pm
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Well, I feel robbed. I just saw this thread was back in the latest topics, and thought to myself....Yippie!!! I'm finally going to find out what happened. icon_cry.gif

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sofiasmami Posted 17 Mar 2006 , 8:50pm
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Well, I feel robbed. I just saw this thread was back in the latest topics, and thought to myself....Yippie!!! I'm finally going to find out what happened. icon_cry.gif






me too!!!!!! icon_cry.gificon_cry.gificon_cry.gif ... it's more like a soap opera now we have to wait till monday for the next chapter ...lol

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Monica0271 Posted 17 Mar 2006 , 8:51pm
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Well, I feel robbed. I just saw this thread was back in the latest topics, and thought to myself....I'm finally going to find out what happened.




lol..Thats what I was thinking!! I was hoping to hear what happened! Oh well. icon_redface.gif

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texa Posted 18 Mar 2006 , 2:56pm
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OK, my curiosity got the better of me, and I PM'd Terry. This is what she said (and I hope you'll forgive me, Terry!):

************
So sorry!! LOL

He left a check in my box for 65.00!!!!!

Problem solved!

(I guess it was a man thing) LOL

************

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mmdd Posted 18 Mar 2006 , 3:11pm
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Wow, so she got a tip!

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adven68 Posted 18 Mar 2006 , 3:24pm
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Yay!!!

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Wendoger Posted 18 Mar 2006 , 3:50pm
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AMEN!!!

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Kos Posted 18 Mar 2006 , 4:11pm
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OK, my curiosity got the better of me, and I PM'd Terry. This is what she said (and I hope you'll forgive me, Terry!): ****




Thanks texa!
It's always good to hear a happy outcome. Thanks for relaying the message.

good work! detective.gif

kos

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