well, the good photos are not on my camera but i chose to upload this anyway until I am able to get the good picture this will have to suffice. Again, I thank you all for your wonderful help and support. When I got to the location the heater was on and the buttercream was melting so as I stacked the cake my family was opening windows and trying to find the ac. In the end it looked really nice and my grandparents were touched. This picture does not do it justice but it is the only one I could find. Why the picture was taken midway through cutting I will never know. I have never done a cake this big (typically I will bake a 1/2 sheet and frost the top and not take it out of the pan so....yeah....) and it was a learning process Thank you all again!